Awareness Will Help You Heal!!

A Narcissist has a pathological need for control and he purposely manipulate his victims in very cruel ways in order to get what he wants.

He doesn’t care about the impact on the victim and he has no empathy.

A Narcissist gets angry at the victim when she tries to call him out on his behaviour.

He quickly turns the tables, aggressively verbally attacks the victim and makes her feel guilty for trying to stand up for herself.

The Narcissist makes the victim feel responsible for his emotional well being.

This happens consistently and over time this leads to the Fear, Obligation and Guilt or FOG trap that many victims of Narcissists get sucked into.

A Narcissist never feels like he has done anything wrong.

He rages against life and abuses the one who has been lured into loving him with his manipulative love bombing.

“Since Narcissists deep down feel themselves to be faultless, it is inevitable that when they are in conflict with the world they will invariably perceive the conflict as the world’s fault”
~ Dr. M. Scott Peck ~

“Since they must deny their own badness, they must perceive others as bad.
They project their own evil onto the world. They never think of themselves as evil, on the other hand they consequently see much evil in others.”

~ Dr. M. Scott Peck ~

On behalf of every person who has been subjected to A Narcissist’s darkness, cruelty, manipulation and toxic abuse, I offer you the following,

Anyone who would blame the victim for taking it, not standing up for themselves, bringing it on themselves because they didn’t leave and allowing it speaks from ignorance and has no understanding of the complexity of love, the psychology of abuse or Narcissistic Personality Disorder.

I have read comments in various forums and groups that attempt to equalise the blame and shift responsibility to the victims of Narcissists.

This is harmful and devastatingly invalidating to the victims, many of whom have developed C-PTSD from being with A Narcissist.

Allow me to emphasise on this,
Many victims have developed C-PTSD from being with A Narcissist.

By being involved with A Narcissist a person could develop the same debilitating anxiety disorder that tortures victims to think about it.

I think this makes it clear for anyone who may be in doubt about it who the real victim is when involved with A Narcissist.

“Evil people hate the light because it reveals who they really are so they will destroy the light, the goodness and the love in order to avoid the pain of self awareness.”
~ Dr. M. Scott Peck ~

Share Your Thoughts

%d bloggers like this: