Cutting The Cord!
It is becoming more and more evident that there is an invisible web of energy tying us all together.
We know that we are affected by unseen forces.
For example, we don’t see the wind or the air we breathe.
We don’t see viruses in the air or bacteria on our food.
Similarly we don’t see the invisible thread of energy that goes between ourselves and those we relate with on a daily basis.
I began understanding the psychic connection between people a while ago although I have known about it on some level most of my life.
As I began studying Narcissism and it’s psychic affects on victims, I could see the power that those psychic cords had on influencing our reality.
I also saw the importance of detaching or severing those cords in order to be free of the continuing psychic affects of that relationship.
I performed a series of cord cutting exercises on myself to break the psychic bonds with the Narcissist I loved.
I could see how he would reattach psychically even after six months of not seeing him.
This would happen at my weakest moments when I was blaming myself or feeling down about myself in some way.
In a sense I would invite the connection back because there was a part of me that wanted to remain connected to him.
Unfortunately the psychic connection between myself and him was very unhealthy for me.
It resulted in me feeling weak, disempowered, obsessive, sad, depressed, tired, and seeing myself as a failure.
Severing the psychic cords would restore my power and my sense of confidence.
I realised that through this psychic connection I was taking on everything he had always projected onto me.
I was owning his stuff, allowing the dark murky waters of his emotional reality to flow into my energy field, polluting my reality.
When we severe the psychic hose that dumps the murky toxic energy of an unconscious partner or former partner into our energy field, we can begin to see clear water once again.
It was pretty clear that this Narcissistic Individual in my life needed to have someone to dump his repressed emotional toxicity onto in order to feel strong within himself.
If he wasn’t dumping on me he would be dumping on someone else.
Once we disconnect those psychic emotional cords the person who has been feeding on our energy will feel a difference.
He may even know on some level, that something has just happened and it has to do with you.
But most often it is likely to be unconscious.
Often the phone will ring or we will get an email or that person may even show up at the door.
This is the time we need to be particularly strong and keep our energy to ourselves.
Sometimes we need to repeat the process of cutting the psychic cords several times in order to be completely free of the energy that is draining us.
I believe that the process always works, even when we don’t feel an immediate difference.
The only reason it may not seem to work for some is that the they have become so accustomed to the murky energy of the psychic vampire in their life that they are inviting the cord to reattach.
We get comfortable with what is familiar and if we have established a pattern with a Narcissistic or Emotional Vampire then we have to really understand how to break that connection and change the pattern.
I spoke to a woman who once described the attachment like a grey cloud over her head and she was so used to this cloud that when it was gone she missed it and went seeking the cloud.
It was as if having blue skies in her life was unfamiliar and somewhat uncomfortable.
We get used to our dark clouds and aren’t sure what to do when they are gone.
It is the same reason that victims of abuse keep attracting people to abuse them.
It is familiar and comfortable.
So when you cut those psychic cords you have to be ready and willing to embrace a change in your life.
There will be something missing!
But nature always moves in to fill a void in our lives.
Be prepared to accept something better.
Invite something better into your life.
Invite love, light and positive energy.
It may take a while to get used to how this feels in your energy field, but once you adapt to it, you will be glad you put out the invitation.
We are connected to the Narcissist in our lives through an invisible psychic emotional bond that serves to drain our energy and leave us feeling depleted, lost, out of control and raped on a deep soul level.
In order to free ourselves it is important that we do the inner work of cutting those psychic cords and getting our soul and our energy back.