The Gift Of The Narcissist Should You Choose To Accept It!!
Only to the extent that we expose ourselves over and over to annihilation can that which is indestructible in us be found.
Narcissism is vastly misunderstood in our society, many confuse it with simple vanity or a super high interest in oneself.
While we should have a healthy interest in ourselves and be a little selfish when A Narcissist appears in our lives.
We have to consider it as A Gift.
We have something he wants and he will stop at nothing to get it.
And after he has it, our total and ultimate annihilation is what he has in mind.
A Petty Tyrant Is A Tormentor.
Someone who either holds the power of life and death over Warriors or simply annoys them to distraction.
Petty Tyrants teach us detachment.
The ingredients of the new seers’ strategy shows how efficient and clever is the device of using A Petty Tyrant.
The strategy not only gets rid of self importance, it also prepares Warriors for the final realisation that impeccability is the only thing that counts in the path of knowledge.
The Warrior who stumbles on A Petty Tyrant is a lucky one.
You are fortunate if you come upon one in your path because if you don’t you have to go out and look for one.
If seers can hold their own in facing Petty Tyrants, they can certainly face the unknown with impunity and then they can even stand the presence of the unknowable.
Narcissists Are Petty Tyrants.
Narcissists are people who suffer from Narcissistic Personality Disorder and the signs and symptoms are so obvious once you can learn to identify it.
But trying to understand Narcissism can almost drive you insane because it makes no sense.
Because the sad tragedy of Narcissistic Personality Disorder is that those who suffer from it will never ever realise that they have it.
And it is so Pervasive in our Culture.
Narcissism has infected everything from our workplaces to our schools and worship houses.
In basic terms Narcissistic Personality Disorder Sufferers lack empathy for others and most importantly for themselves.
They are furiously self destructive while also maintaining an appearance of having it together.
They maintain this appearance in a variety of ways, lying, cheating, stealing or victimising others.
This is not to say that Narcissistic Personality Disordered people are not nice people.
They are very good at mimicking human emotions and behaviours but by and large they are Psychopaths.
If a company has A Narcissist for an HR Manager, that company is in danger.
If your Therapist is A Narcissist, your mental health is at stake.
If A Narcissist falls in love with you, then you become his Number One Enemy.
God forbid you marry A Narcissist because he will make your life and your children’s lives a living hell.
If you have something A Narcissist wants be prepared.
He may want to be friends with your friends.
He may want your popularity.
He will study you as if You are A Prey and He is A Predator.
He may even view you as a threat to something he already has.
But once you have been chosen as A Victim of A Narcissist, your complete and total annihilation is what he has in mind.
And if he can’t kill you, he will do what he can to smear your reputation or turn your friends, lovers and supporters against you.
He wants to wipe you off the face of the Earth and if he can’t do that he will ruin everything in your life so that you will want to die.
He is counting on you committing suicide.
And what makes A Narcissist so dangerous is that if you discover that he is A Narcissist or even exposes him as one, he will go in for The Kill.
He is not above lying to judges or police officers to ruin your life.
His perfect appearance must be preserved at all costs.
He will get you fired from your job.
He will cry rape.
He will do whatever he can to stop the truth from coming out.
He will get a court order to throw you into a mental hospital.
He will drive you crazy so that you will feel you have to go to a mental hospital.
He will convince the authorities that you are a danger to yourself and to others.
The goal is to have you eliminated and most times he succeeds.
Because Narcissism makes no sense, it makes no sense to the person being victimised.
Narcissists destroy your life and make it appear that it is all your fault.
They Psychologically torture their victims.
It makes no sense to anyone but the few of us who have dared walk that scary road of trying to figure it out.
To those of us who have had our lives destroyed by Narcissists even us we don’t truly understand.
For those of us who have empathy, people who lack empathy may as well be Alien Robots from the future.
Getting inside their brains to figure out why they do the things they do is not for the faint of heart.
And I have survived more Narcissistic Attacks than I care to remember.
And each time I have watched helplessly as my life was about to be destroyed.
But I have Survived.
When Buddhist Monk Pema Chodron talks about opening yourself to annihilation, you will truly find the indestructible parts inside of yourself.
The Gift that The Narcissist gives you is a hard and tough lesson on yourself.
The Narcissist gives you a matrix and an obstacle course where your very survival is at stake.
It Is A Death Match Race.
Make it through alive and your life will be purified.
You will be able to see things for exactly what it is.
You will be able to spot A Narcissist early and back away slowly.
You will know A Secret Knowledge.
Survive The Petty Tyrant and you will know great truth.
Obstacles To The Truth.
One of the first obstacles to overcome is the Gaslighting.
That is where A Narcissist tries to convince you and others that events went down a very different way than the truth.
He is very convincing and sometimes even enlist the help of other people.
This is dangerous in a workplace just as much as the family home.
The way to get through this is to hold fast.
You know who you are and you know what happened.
Narcissists are very good at engineering events that look good in their favour.
You will learn the lesson of holding onto your truth and be able to see through lies easily.
The second obstacle is to remain calm.
One of the tactics A Narcissist will use is the Badger and Blame.
It is where he nags or badgers you to the point you blow up in anger and then blame you for being angry.
This way he can feel justified in further badgering you.
Remain calm and don’t give in to the need to retaliate.
You can’t win an argument with A Narcissist so it is futile.
The Petty Tyrant can be driven insane by your non response so just detach and watch it happen.
Here you learn the secret of how to not panic in the face of danger.
The third obstacle is name calling.
A Narcissist will often project what he truly feels about himself onto his victim.
You are a liar! He might say even though you know you are telling the truth.
Try not to get into the arduous task of convincing The Narcissist of the truth.
The truth will often not work out in his favour so do not get into a name calling contest with him.
It is here where you gain X-Ray vision to see things and people for what they project onto you.
Since Narcissists are ultimately self destructive, they destroy themselves along with their victim.
They usually spend lots of their own money towards keeping a person hooked and then withdraw.
Then they blame their victim for spending so much money.
Narcissists do not know themselves and here is where Tho Ultimate Gift Of The Narcissist comes in.
An experience with A Narcissist gets you to your core issues fast.
After being wounded or taken down to the point that nothing else exists but you, it is up to you to find The Path To Healing.
If The Narcissist has done his job, he will have caused so much drama that your friends and family will want nothing to do with you.
You are on your own and with most people not knowing how dangerous and cold blooded Narcissists are they will view your tales with suspicion.
Normal people wouldn’t treat people that way but Narcissists are not normal people with normal human emotions.
You have to accept you have been mauled by A Monster.
But after you heal you will become stronger than ever.
You will understand that The Narcissist and The Petty Tyrant did you a favour.
They purified your life quickly yet painfully and they showed you how strong you are.
Without A Petty Tyrant it can take years to get the lessons A Narcissist can teach you in one week.
Bless The Narcissist for his role in shaping Spiritual Warriors.