The Scorpion And The Frog.
Remember the story of the scorpion and the frog.
When the scorpion wanted to cross the stream so he asked the frog for help.
No you will sting me ,, said the frog.
I promise I won’t ,, said the scorpion.
So the frog gives the scorpion a ride across the stream.
Then the scorpion stings the frog.
As the frog dies he asked the scorpion Why did you sting me?
I’m a scorpion ,, said the scorpion.
Forgiveness doesn’t mean to forget.
Forgiveness is letting go of the anger.
Don’t be angry at the Abuser “the scorpion” and stay far away from him.
The most difficult part of being involved with A Narcissist is something you may not realise until it is over.
Nothing you do or say will make him see or care about the truth in how he treated you.
He did nothing wrong and you were overly emotional so you were wrong.
In his mind you made a myriad of mistakes.
He doesn’t care how his actions affected you.
And as difficult as it is you must let him go and find yourself again.
Forgive him without justifying his evil actions.
Get past how low The Narcissist made you feel.
Get past the good temporary times you may have had with him.
Love and admire yourself by working for a better life.
There is something and someone better waiting for you.