What Did He Really Mean?!
We ask these questions when we are first being discarded.
We ask what did the Narcissist really mean when he said he doesn’t want to be with me anymore?
What did he really mean when he said that he hates me?
What did he really mean when he said that he never wants to see me again?
1. He doesn’t want to be with you anymore.
2. He hates you.
3. He never wants to see you again.
For some strange reason, we want it all to mean the opposite as if he is stupid and doesn’t know what he is saying.
He is not Stupid he has a Disorder.
Because we are devastated by the cruelty of his words and because we have been so focused on him for so long that we forgot to work on our own issues, which we most certainly have for the simple fact that we are putting ourselves through this torment to begin with.
But you know what? These are just words.
Yes, he believed it when he said it but this is his problem.
He has to live with that type of hatred, anger and divisiveness.
We, on the other hand, do not unless we choose to stick around and get sucker punched again and again until he knocks us out, face planted on the mat, bloodied and the fight is over.
Get away from it and start the healing process as quickly as you can because it takes a long time to get through it.