What The Narcissist Loves About You!!
When someone say that this was the worst thing that has ever happened to me, we usually imagine the most horrible scenarios.
However, oftentimes, being with A Narcissist is something that belongs to this group of the most horrible things that can happen to anyone.
A Narcissist is a person who is unable to love anyone but himself.
Narcissists are very manipulative and selfish people.
Narcissists are masters of subtle mental, emotional and psychological abuse.
They inflict damage and scars on the inside of The Victim’s body and that’s why this form of abuse can’t be seen right away.
So when A Narcissist says I love you don’t believe him.
Don’t believe him because A Narcissist is unable to love another human being other than himself.
When A Narcissist tells you that he loves you, it actually means that he’s loving how you would do anything to win his love.
He loves how desperate you are to be loved by him and that you would do anything for him.
That’s how he feels superior to you because he knows that he will never love you the way you need to be loved.
Don’t believe him because A Narcissist only loves the control he has over you and your happiness.
A Narcissist loves how he can quickly get under your skin and manipulate you into doing what he wants.
The Narcissist is happy seeing you vulnerable after he hurts you.
He’s happy because seeing you in pain means that he has total control over you and your emotions.
Don’t believe him because A Narcissist is focused only on his wants and needs.
He wants all your life to revolve around him.
He wants you to be always by his side and feed his ego with immense amounts of Narcissistic Supply.
Don’t believe him because The Narcissist adores to lie and play mind games on you.
His favourite game is gaslighting.
This manipulative mind game is another form of emotional abuse where The Narcissist makes his Victims doubt themselves, their words, their reality and even their sanity.
The Narcissist will subtly make it look like everything is your fault and that you are the crazy one.
What A Narcissist truly loves about you is how easy it is for him to break you emotionally.
He loves how you would do anything to make him feel comfortable and happy.
He loves that you are an easy target for his manipulative tricks.
He loves that he can feel like a God when he is around you.
He loves when you are sad because that means that he can break you every time.
The Narcissist only loves the feeling of knowing that you will always love him and have his back and you will stay with him even though you know that he would never do the same for you.
Finally, remember that The Narcissist will never change.
Neither for you nor for anyone else.
And it’s not your fault that you fell in love with him.
You just need to have the courage to let him go and find the love and happiness that you deserve.