When The Narcissist Goes No Contact.
A Narcissist is playing to win no matter what and it’s not ever about your best interest or well being.
There are a number of reasons he would choose to give you the silent treatment, ghost you or discard you depending on his self serving agenda.
Going No Contact yourself is committing to breaking free from The Narcissist and beginning your healing journey.
A Narcissist is known to hoover Victims back in just to keep the supply source going and again it’s only for his self serving agenda.
Your implementing No Contact now even though The Narcissist already has as far as you know is the best thing you can do for yourself.
Imagine how much harder it would be to have to initiate it yourself.
When A Narcissist discards you it’s truly a blessing in disguise.
The more time and space between you with No Contact the more clarity you will gain.
You have to detox first and it’s no merry go round but staying No Contact which means and this is very very important and critical, closing down all avenues to The Narcissist to contact you is how you will achieve getting out from under his manipulative control.
One thing that you have going for you when The Narcissist implements No Contract is time and space away from him regardless of his agenda, motive or tactic for the absence.
Going and staying No Contact for your well being must be implemented by you.
It’s a toxic addiction cycle and trauma bond that you are going to be breaking out of and recovering from and it’s messy and painful but there is a very bright light at the end of the tunnel for you.
This is your out, your chance to break free and break the cycle which is why it is truly a blessing when The Narcissist goes No Contact regardless of the reason why.
Use this time to implement real No Contact yourself, keep yourself Out and begin your healing journey with the right kind of support.
Also this is the time to start educating yourself about Narcissism and Narcissistic Abuse.
It was his intent to punish you by depriving you of contact with him.
It is a unique situation where No Contact is a punishment and a control concept from The Narcissist to The Victim.
But it is a safety and security concept to remove The Victim from the potential anger and mind numbing emotional upsets created by The Narcissist.
The Narcissist is mad at you and has cut you off to demonstrate that anger.
For the moment consider yourself to be one of the luckiest people on earth.
Take advantage of the break and make sure that The Narcissist remains No Contact.
This will give you time to heal.
You probably don’t know why he is angry with you and has stopped all communication.
He is hoping you reach out and apologise so the abuse can start all over again.
The ball is now in your court.
You need to take the free throw and end the game forever!
Don’t allow him to come back ,, Don’t let that happen.
No Contact implemented by you is the only way to set yourself free.
Two can play the No Contact game but only one can truly stick with it.
That one needs to be you!